Peace Keeper

Although he is my brother, there is still much for me to learn about the doings of Anthony Donovan. As a younger sister, he was out and about while I was still living in childhood. Even when I began to notice the world, my focus was different and in many ways, still is. Nevertheless, we have accumulated a lifetime of memories. There is one extraordinary moment when our lives collided that always stands out to me. It was on April 24, 1971, when we were both part of the half a million people marching in Washington, D.C. to protest the Vietnam War. I was 15 years old, there with high school peers, while Anthony, unbeknownst to me, had come from college. Eventually, in the wee-hours of the 25th, the bus long gone, I was wandering alone, when I literally stumbled across his legs. After a brief conversation of the hows and whats and whys, he walked me to Constitution Ave. and flagged down a car with a New Jersey plate. Giving the driver and his companions the best big brother directive, and a few bucks, Anthony got me out of the capital and headed home. Before we said goodbye, I realized it was his birthday. A reason for me to stay, I suggested. He didn’t agree, as he knew what was coming: his arrest with over 12,000 others.  As we parted in the blue dawn, I was years away from understanding that his role in anti-war demonstrations was more than a lark. It is his mission, he says, for the next generation.

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A Legendary Sendoff for a Legend

All people walk through life making a ripple, one that perhaps seems bigger with hindsight, but there are some who create a wave all their own, visible from the very start which only gets taller and more powerful each day. Our Uncle Brian was that sort. I say our because he can be claimed by so very many. Large families are like that. But for those whose family extends far beyond bloodline, those titans are impossible to possess solely. Titled by those who called him brother, cousin, husband, uncle, god-father, father, grand-father, boss, colleague, even competitor, Captain Brian Anthony McAllister’s list of affiliates is endless. Who among us could not call this man ours?

Legends demand a status all their own, clearly larger than average, yet touching us all. Brian was tenacious, persistent, generous, patriotic, often crazy and certainly wild, but with a contagious laugh, and the ability to make you feel as if you were the very best. Waking a man with this largess easily filled rooms with people, each also laughing even while they shed tears, all remembering his stories and their stories with him, in vivid happiness, recalling his prodigious love, feeling gratitude for their connection to him.

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Family Matters

In today’s ever expanding world being a fifth generation anything feels remarkable. Knowing that your name, and your ancestors’ name, and theirs before them, all belong to a well-respected family institution, causes one to swell with pride. In my case this pride is compounded with the recent Christening of my namesake tug boat, and thus having an even more direct connection to this mighty fleet that has endured all the trials of the last 150 years. Being a 5th generation McAllister never felt so wonderful as when I broke a bottle across the stern of the Moira McAllister!

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